Monday, March 22, 2010

Is It True Married People Having More Sex Than Their Singles:





I've heard married people say that they'd love to be single again, to have sex whenever and with whomever they desire. But in reality, those married people are probably having more sex than their single counterparts. Unless they're in a committed relationship, single people have less sex than married people do. The simple reason for this is that married people have access to a sex partner, while singles do not. In a recent survey of single 30-year-olds, 19 percent said that they
had not had sex in over a year. Here's how many married women in their 30s are having sex during 1 year:

The key to having sex as much, or as little, as you want is finding a partner who wants the same amount as you do. A marriage certificate or the fact that you share a bed with someone doesn't guarantee that you'll be satisfied with your sex life.You may be single, living with your lover, or dating so that you see each other every day and having as much sex as you want to be having. But generally married couples do have sex more than single people.

Is The Difference between Young Or Old :

People are sexual beings from birth to death. Throughout life, people are sexually expressive, even if they are not sexually active. Children “play doctor” to explore sexuality, or masturbate for a sexual release. Teens experiment with “heavy petting” and sometimes with intercourse.

Many adults believe that young people shouldn't be having sex, even though many of them experimented during their own teenage years. In fact, although some parents today had sex in their teen years, they still tell their children to wait until they are over 18 or married.

So when is the right time for people to start having sex? I believe that people are too young to have sex if they can't deal with the physical and emotional consequences of sex. But that's all very individual. There are some 16-year-olds who can deal with having sex, and, on the other hand, there are some 30-year-old who still can't. The best time to start having sex is when:

• you feel ready and you're confident sex is the right thing for you.


• you would be able to know what to do if an unintended pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease did occur.


• you can evaluate your partner to see if you are compatible.

• you will use birth control and condoms responsibly every time you have sex.

• you will be able to cope with your emotions, knowing if you need to be in love to have sex, and able to accept it if your partner loves you forever, or if your partner hits the road immediately after orgasm.

Maybe you think that teens and twentysomethings have tons of sex because they are so young, virile (use for men having strength,energy and a strong sex drive,vigorous,strong and manly) and sexually charged. However, that assumption is not always true. Many young people are singles, so they don't have anyone to have sex with.
The good news about growing up is that you also grow up sexually. More men last longer and more women enjoy orgasms as they get older. The more you have sex, the more you learn about sex, and the more interesting your sex becomes.

Getting older and wiser has its benefits in bed too!



The biggest factors that affect the frequency of sex in your life have to do with the changes in your life. As a teen, you probably still lived at home, with little privacy for sexual encounters. Even after you started living on your own, dorm rooms or shared apartments also made it difficult for those oh-so-intimate moments. Adults usually have the most time and privacy for sex. Yet as you become more established in life (for example, as part of a two-career couple with
children) you may often be too busy or too tired to find time for sex. Therefore,throughout your life, your sex life will constantly be changing. Young or old, you can have interesting sex, as long as you have the willing partner, the time, the place and the ability.

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