Makes A Good Sex

Everyone has a different opinion of what makes good sex. A fairly scientific sounding explanation of good sex follows:

For most people, good sex has an element of sensual eroticism (sexual desire or excitement). It often is initiated to satisfy lustful desire, or sexual tension between two people. As they begin to become aroused, and begin having intimate contact,they stimulate (apply or act as a stimulus to) each other even more. Then they progress to heavier foreplay, enough so that both people feel turned on and ready for sex. They might both have a mastery of sexual technique so that the lust they feel can be satisfied through their sex acts and their orgasms. There may also be some emotional peak, some moment where they feel in love with the sex acts they are performing and in love with the moment, which is sometimes translated to feeling in love with the person they are doing it with. Throughout the sex act, the people will feel sexual intensity and freedom. They will be absorbed in the act, not questioning, not anticipating, not worrying, not analyzing…just into having sex. After good sex, the feelings of relaxation, safety,satisfaction, bliss and love are often present.

The only way you can really know if the person you are attracted to will be good in bed is by
having sex. However, there are some things you can look for to determine if the person has a
positive attitude toward sex and therefore could be a good lover. Keep your eyes open for
someone who:

• is comfortable with his or her body.
• talks about sex openly, but not crudely.
• has a sense of fun and adventure.
• uses birth control and/or condoms properly.